are you having your own, private mental health year?

The fact you added the word 'class' next to her name just made me throw up....

Raja was joking about the class

she is an ok singer but why the need to degrade herself just to get a bit of press

Veer,

Coz there's no business like show business!!

Theres daring whilst retaining class. Then theres just cheap...She's just another fame seeker. I dont think shes pretty or talented to be honest.

Thugs right, its all 4 show biz...

class?? Please!!

More like Asian media's answer to Jodie Marsh

sorry, but she makes me physically sick- another Z list wannabe

Like i said earlier Veer, are you having your own private mental h...

Well, I'd give her one!

praavah, amsterdam ja ke...

Raja please.....just because it's Ramadaan and your carrying out the good muslim duties - the other 11months I know you'd stick your johnson into that kanjaar.

nah man, even there was a drought i would go there. She looks like a tranny to me...

(shudders)

She looks really weird!

Piyu that is an understatement

she is vile!

Sorry Veer, this girl has no class at all
the word Rundy comes to mind

LOL.

i like the use of "rundy". The word "kunjaree" is usually a good accompanyment with it. Like Salt & Vinegar. ;-) x

The fact that none of you rate her is all good news for me.

Because of course it increases my chances.

I can just see it now;

Mola seduces her with dinner at a plush place,

Drives her home in an assured confidence that would make James Bond look adolescent...

The lips meet,

Kisses explode,

Sofia turns the lights off,

Clothes come off,

.....Mola runs out of the apartment, down the road like a screaming banshee, "She's got a DICK!!!!!!"

;-D

(I'd swear she's a she-male dude...)

Chicks with dicks don't freak me out.

As far as I'm concerned, w hole is a goal.

Bring the Hayatster. She's hot.

I m not a fan of Sofia Hayat, i do not think she s particularly attractive, and i do nt think she particularly talented. And yes she will try anything to get herself in the papers etc.

That said some of the comments posted on this site are really vile. Is the woman that offensive to you guys? Is she even that relevant to your lives that you feel the need to trash her in such a way.

She will do anything for fame. Well surprise surprise so will millions of other women out there. Maybe some of you are just annoyed/jealous that she manages to get some of the attention that shes so desperately after.

How some of you guys even talk about class and dignity, and then post the comments you have is beyond me.

"Is the woman that offensive to you guys?"

-Take a hint lol.

"Maybe some of you are just annoyed/jealous that she manages to get some of the attention that shes so desperately after."

-You're right. I wish I looked that good and had the adoration of millions and billions.....(cough cough)

"How some of you guys even talk about class and dignity, and then post the comments you have is beyond me."

-Not dignity, we just mentioned class. Or the lack there of....

Oh Isis please do just shut up

No one mentioned dignity

the reason i started this topic (and i am not responsible for the rude comments and slander on here, i just merely asked a question)

as there was there was this online poll on some Asian publication that she came third on the list as one of the most classiest brit asians in the last 5 years..

Now, this amused me, as surely there are far more credible and 'talented ' people who deserved to be on there that propelled me to ask the question in the first place.

'Oh Isis please do shut up'
Oops, did i touch a nerve?

Oh dear Veer. Your not the brightest button in the box are you. Sweetheart i m typing not talking.

And if i m not mistaken you are the one who asked people for their opinions.

'what do you lot think'

That is what you posted.
Maybe you should of put , 'Tell me what you lot think , as long as you agree with me and do nt make me feel bad about my sorry little life'

Yes i have put sorry little life. Sorry, because there is so little going on you felt compelled to start this discussion in the first place

Whats interesting is that in my post i said 'some of you'. I did nt mention any names. Was nt even thinking about you. but you obviously felt a bit shit about the whole thing, feeling the need to justify your decision to put up your post.

Also what kind of moron do you have to be to pay any attention to an online poll that votes in sofia hayat as classy.

As i said earlier i m no fan, but it really winds me up when people resort to the use of words such as kanjar and rundy. That type of judgemental and moralistic bullshit is rife in the asian communities, i was just surprised to find it on a forum for asians in media.

Sofia Hayat sleeps around. wears trashy clothes, and makes no apologies for who she is. Thats what you guys find offensive. but 95% of your precious actresses in bollywood have had to sleep with every Tom Dick and Abdul to get to where they are. Is that ok for you lot just because it s behind the scenes. Or is it ok to dish out blowjobs with your cv and photo,as long as you pretend to be a virgin, and dont get your tits out.

Finally Veer and Raja, ( see now i m using names) seeing you keep making the point that none of you used the word dignity. I must apologise because of course dignity and class in this context have absolutely nothing to do with each other, in fact they mean completely different things. Do nt know what posessed me to use this word.

Veer like i said, know your not that bright, so just wanted to let you know, it s not a real apology, i m using sarcasm. Hope it did nt confuse you too much. If your head s hurting take a pain killer and lie down, it may help.

Apology accepted. Albeit in a sarcastic way.... ;-)

Dang it!

You guys need to get out more...

Isis - you rock.

These guys are just sexually frustrated pendus who can't handle a woman who uses her sexuality for her own benefits.

Me personally, find that a bit of a turn on!

Well said Mola!

My favourite pendu..... how goes things in the village?

Wow, Isis that is some rant you just had there- hope you are feeling better now after letting off some steam :)

Please excuse my ignorance, but who is this woman? I'm originally from the States and haven't heard of her before!

I would like to know what all the fuss is about?

Veer, do the honours...

Isis I do apologise if i offended you, but you really do make me laugh, looks like i am the one who touched a raw nerve with you judging by your 'pathetic' reply

whilst i do agree with most things in your posting, my opinion of her still remains the same, end of

Gemini_Star, Sofia entered some lame reality tv show called 'bollywood star' a few years ago and did some presenting on zee tv- and has been in a couple of trashy films, so basically, a nobody!

wow...

i dont have a grudge against her, cause she's never personally done me any harm ( statingtheobvious.com). But i AM entitled to an opinion , as are others, and my ha'penny's worth is that she's just crap at everything. I have no idea how good or bad she is in bed, but then she's not the kind of woman id go for either.

There we are...any more straighter than that, and ill be going into noel gallagher territory (irony.com)

Gemini, Yes i did let of some steam. But i also think its very easy to dismiss what some one has to say by describing it as a rant.

Shekhar, Sorry but when did i say you are not entitled to an opinion.

Post your opinion as much as you want (I have no issue with your last comments).But maybe you should re read my post.It was the judgemental shite that bothered me.

Sofia Hyatt is nt talented, so what. Why call her a rundy? Is nt it interesting though as talentless as she is, she got all of you talking about her.

Veer, initially i was nt gonna respond to you , especially seeing we ve allready established your a little slow, but i could nt resist.

If Sofia Hyatt is such a 'nobody' why did you start a thread about her? More to the point what does that say about you?

I don't like Sofia Hayat but i do agree with Isis

I think this post has now reached its peak

Sunny, please delete

Thanks for the time you spent responding isis..its appreciated.

Incidentally, im curious as to why youre defending her with a hint of zeal which goes beyond the "she's a woman you f***ers, back off!". Care to enlighten?

Well technically SH didnt get us talking about her, Veer did. As he has every right to, seeing as its a chat forum re Asians in Media (which SH is).

You're asking Shekhs to re read your post, but have you bothered to notice that it was actually Maya who referred to SH as a 'Rundy'?

Rather than making things personal with Veer (who didnt have to justify this thread, yet still did) and throw 'holier than thou' generic comments back on the Aimers here, why dont you address Maya directly instead?

God Raja, i m beginning to think your just as dim as your mate Veer. (Lets for one moment forget that I d asked shekhar to re read my post, in response to him telling me that he is entitled to an opinion) and take a look at this.

'LOL.i like the use of "rundy". The word "kunjaree" is usually a good accompanyment with it. Like Salt & Vinegar. ;-) x'

Now i know it will take some time, as you find it hard to read and write, but why do nt you take a look at who posted that.

There were a couple of posts that were below the belt. I did nt partcularly want to single anyone out, i simply wanted to say this is shitty and you guys are getting carried away.

Now I take issue with Veer cos she is an idiot. Initially I was definitely not having a go at her, but she obviously felt differently, and then did the thing most stupid people do. She could nt intelligently address any of the points i made, so she told me to shut up. Yeah real bright.

Maybe i m being a little harsh, she s probably a 17 year old kid from a small town up north.
So i apologise and i ll try not to have a go at her anymore.

Finally Raja, i do nt really care if you think i m making 'holier than thou comments'. You are an irrelevant turd who tries desperately hard to be funny but fails miserably. And if by defending someone who everyone else is laying in to makes me unpopular with you and the 'aimers' i do nt particularly give a shit.

Shekhar,
I do nt think i would ever conduct myself in a way that hyatt does, but i dont think it gives me the right to call her a whore. I read some of the stuff on here and it bothered me. It made me feel sorry for her, and i decided i d say something, its as simple as that.

Failed miserably? Oh lord, im suicidal now... (yawn)

But before i top it, tell me Isis, did i fail as in ''Bmw 8series'' fail, or ''Sofia Hayat's bollywood career'' fail?

Constructive criticism may help me in my next reincarnation...

Isis, the irony of this situation isn't lost on me..

youre rightly accusing many people here of being a little too rich in their responses , but hey, this is a communal toilet after all. Ask hundal...he once thought he was king of the road when this site was popular, but his own need for some kind of recognition destroyed the traffic here...oh and facebook helped too i guess (now that's what i call divine retribution). Incidentally, i didnt call her a kunjaree, but merely stated that rundee and kunjaree go hand in hand. Im legally savvy enough due to the life i lead to know the difference between defamation, slander and just plain old mild green mirch with masaala :-D

the IRONY in all of this is that you yourself have now reached the same levels of gutter sniping at people you also dont know, all in the name of defending ms hyatt. So yet again, I ask you, why does it seem apparent that your defence is a little more than feminist zeal for a fellow (sic) woman?

Much love

Shekhar

Raja you failed as in Sinclair C5 failed!

Shekhar. Really? You seriously think its the same thing?

I ll put my hands up, to some extent you have a point, i know by getting personal with people i weaken my argument. But i do have to point out that i am on a forum debating WITH the people i am putting down.

Maybe i m wrong but i do nt think Hayat is arguing with any of you lot on this forum.

I called Raja an unfunny turd and Veer stupid. I said it to them in direct response to their comments to me. I m not perfect, if someone tells me to shut up, or i m pathetic, or being holier than thou,then of course i ll respond.
If they simply replied to me without making it personal (as you did), i would have responded in the same way.

Now, Seriously, you think what I have said to veer and raja, is the same as what you guys posted about Hayat?
I m sorry it is no where near the same level of 'gutter sniping,' if you can not see the difference then thats a little worrying.

Brings me to my next point,
I have said a number of times, I m no fan of Hayat. Some one said she is nt classy, some one else compared her to Jodie Marsh, I do not disagree. and i never said such comments should nt be posted, in the same way I should be able to say if I think someone is an idiot. It was the specific use of words such as rundy and kanjaree that bothered me. Its so old school, nasty, backwards and fucked up. (The chick with a dick stuff was pretty cruel too)

Now I do nt want to repeat myself, but you seem desperate to find a connection between me and sofia. Or make more of why I have decided to post on this forum. There is nothing beyond what I have already said. I just assumed that most people on this site were Asians in media, or a little bit more progressive than my great grandmother. I have no similarities to Sofia, and none of this has hit a nerve, I have never been called a rundy or a kanjaree. And no one has ever called me a feminist. I like to think I have a heart, and I wanted to post my opinion and say some of you are going too far. If you cant buy that,the issue seems to be with you not me.

Thanks for the upgrade, atleast the C5 did better than SH ;-)

Personally guys I'd blame Ms Hayat's agent for the state of her career/PR.

But you're right Shekhs, theres more to her arguments than standing for truth, justice yada yada yada yawn typical BS. Hmm....

''I ll put my hands up, to some extent you have a point, i know by getting personal with people i weaken my argument.''
-No, you're just coming across a hypocrite, like Shekhs says, your chattin the same shite which your accusing others of....

''Maybe i m wrong but i do nt think Hayat is arguing with any of you lot on this forum.''
-See you say that, but something tells me and others here that there's more to this defensive zeal than meets the akhiya..... ;-)

''I called Raja an unfunny turd and Veer stupid. I said it to them in direct response to their comments to me. ''
-Sod what you said to me, (doesn't change my life 1 bit) but the fact you referred to Veer as 'slow' and inferred that having learning difficulties is a social inadequacy and something to be derogatorily thrown around, is bang out of order. I have worked with and know people who have learning difficulties and they have to deal with twats like YOU who ridicule them and use their condition as a cussing point to others. Now from going personal you just went way too far in my opinion. Veer clearly isnt slow, but to use a genuinely difficult mental health condition in a derogatory manner is just plain low. Period.

''I m not perfect, if someone tells me to shut up, or i m pathetic, or being holier than thou,then of course i ll respond.''
-No, you bring attitude, you talk down to people instead of properly addressing your ''concerns'', then you're gonna get spoken to in the way you speak. Sorry, it's call life, deal with it....

''If they simply replied to me without making it personal (as you did), i would have responded in the same way.''
-Read above point. Proves my point, hypocrite.

''Now, Seriously, you think what I have said to veer and raja, is the same as what you guys posted about Hayat?''
-Nope. But then people here were havin a banter, till you came along and acted as though your daughter in law ran away with the doodwala.

''I m sorry it is no where near the same level of 'gutter sniping,' ''
-Strange because on the 18th at 11.51pm you inferred Shekhar was entitled to his opinion. See above point. Your response to 2 twatty words, was to infer a mental health issue with the thread starter. Low.


''Brings me to my next point,
I have said a number of times, I m no fan of Hayat.''
-Join the club.

''Some one said she is nt classy''
-Ya think?

''some one else compared her to Jodie Marsh, I do not disagree.''
-Thats harsh. At least Jodie Marsh HAS a career.....

''and i never said such comments should nt be posted, in the same way I should be able to say if I think someone is an idiot.''
-Double standards. You say people are free to post what they want, then when they do, you personally attack them, instead of addressing the specific issue you have with what they say. Let's be honest, you dont know any of us, but you ultimately only have an issue with the comment, rather than the commenter.

''It was the specific use of words such as rundy and kanjaree that bothered me. Its so old school, nasty, backwards and fucked up.''
-For every Kanjar, there is a Kanjaree. For every rundy, there is a rundawa. Is it fucked up to use? Obviously not to the people who used it here.

"(The chick with a dick stuff was pretty cruel too)"
-If you genuinely found it offensive, then jokes and piss takes aside, I would have apologised. Im not out to offend people here believe it or not.

''Now I do nt want to repeat myself, but you seem desperate to find a connection between me and sofia. Or make more of why I have decided to post on this forum. There is nothing beyond what I have already said. ''
-Desperate is a strong word. I think 'suspiciously concerned' would probably best describe it, eh Shekhs? ;-)

''I just assumed that most people on this site were Asians in media, or a little bit more progressive than my great grandmother.''
-Hang on, you just agreed above with everyone re Ms Hayat's crappy attempt at a career etc, but because some people here used the words Rundy and Kunjar, you suddenly think you're holier than thou (shoot me for using it again) attitude makes you 'more progressive'?! No luv, it doesn't.

''I have no similarities to Sofia, and none of this has hit a nerve, I have never been called a rundy or a kanjaree.''
-You sure? Because if you genuinely didnt like the use of these words, you'd have perhaps addressed the issue with a more adult way rather than the personal route....

Oh and whats wrong with 17 yr old girls from up north?!

Er... Isis sorry to burst your bubble, but 'Veer' is actually a man's name- somehow i doubt that he is a 17 yr old girl lol!

look, i think there are a lot of conflicting personalities on here. Yes some of the comments on here are gross, disgusting and vile, but hey people are entitled to their own opinions, whether we like it or not...it's just best to accept it

Come on guys seriously, don't you all think this is getting way out of hand?

Shame on me for never clicking on this crappy thread - and never knowing who the hell Sofia whatever her name is, was in the first place.
Gemini Star is right this is beyond out of hand - okay Isis you may have had a point earlier about the initial vile remarks made against this certain somebody but the minute you started insulting others on this forum -who like you were expressing their OPINION - your argument fell flat on its face.
Not that I'm condoning what the others have since written - but don't all shoot me at once!
Can we all just respect each others opinions and drop the personal attacks? And if you really want to experience class and dignity my dears, perhaps you should head off to pickled politics lol.

Now kiss and make up!

here here bride2be

man, these peeps need to get a life!

OH MY GOD, someone is having a complete and utter hissy fit. How old are you,12? Chill out!! Did nt realise i d bothered you so much you were gonna cut and paste everything i said and write an essay.

Raja, you come across as a raving lunatic. Aside from the fact that i almost fell asleep, you have nt made one intelligent point, you just keep going round in circles. and im sorry all i did was laugh at your desperate attempt to make out that im ridiculing people with mental health issues.

Oh yeah i almost forgot with your not so amazing powers of deduction you came to the conclusion that i am in fact Sofia Hayat!!! Raja, you have the IQ of a fart.

(sorry shekhar, i could nt resist)

Gemini star, thats the whole point, Veer comes across as a young girl.

And like i said Bride, if some one takes a shot at me, i ll make one back. if some one is civil, i ll give them the same respect. But I m not on here slagging off people who can t defend themselves.

But ofcourse I am Isis, as stinking as a lamb tikka fart. Add some mango chutney with it...

You reckon my IQ is low? You're pathetic over generalisations now include a new one ie if by your definition a person (Veer) acts immature and nonsensical, then you claim them to be a female?! Round of applause for the hypocrite lol.

The fact you evade every point, everytime only deepens my suspicion. But hey if B2b and Gemini star (2 lasses who i DO respect) want this to end, then so be it...

No. Veer comes across as a young girl because he/she starts a thread about how classy Sofia Hayat is, and then uses phrases such as end of!!!!

Lastly if you made an intelligent point i d address it, but quite simply you do nt.

(shakes head)

guys, come on..eh hun bakwaas eh, nai?

Oh dear...it looks as if i may have started off world war 3 with my comment.

Isis, if i have offended you and any other fellow aimers then i sincerely apologise.

I guess unlike most of the strangers on here, my issues with SH are very personal and have been going on for years! I have the unfortunate privilige of sharing the same blood as her if you know what i mean. But yes you're right, that's no excuse to use such foul language

When Veer put this post up, i coulnd't resist having a pop.
That's basically all i wish to say on the matter and on that note, i request sunny to please delete this thread

I still think she's worth a squirt.

Dude - even for you that's just nasty. You must be on a long streak to come out with that comment.

Mola dude, you're a legend...

Thanks raja.

Y'know I'm not even makin' an effort...

First time I've checked out this site an 'oh Man'... What a bunch of sados!
It seems to me that 'Isis' is talking about respect for women but this little village of dead-beats can't see that.
Is this a little village of Asians in Media? If you guys are Asians in media then its obvious why Asian media has crwled up its own arse.
There are about 8 of you who seem to post all day - SAD.
And Isis, you missed a trick with Raja, he seems to think you are Ms Hyat because you seem to stick up for her. If that is his logic then he must be mentally retarded, as he seems to have an issue with this.

Laters, Sados!

P.s. "I'm the only Asian in media in da village!" Pricks.

Mola seriously, MAKE the effort..... ;-)

Mola your comment is sick and disgusting!

How would you feel if someone spoke about your sister, girlfriend or wife like that?

Seriously, that sort of language is not called for

Sunny please delete this thread this is getting ridiculous now

Twinkle I have no time for your self righteousness.

Let me tell YOU something. Your brother, your boyfriend, your husband, your father, your uncle... they ALL check out girls in the same way.

Some of us are just more honest about it.

looks like someone is sexually frustrated...

Mola: 'I still think she's worth a squirt.'

totally gross, are you blind or just deluded??

she looks like a tranny!!!!

Mola dude u really make me laugh

Kalyani, you are only showing everyone how shallow you are with that comment.

It's apparent that you don't deem girls who have slightly masculine features as worthy of having sex with you...

WOW... you must be a great lay to be that arrogent/choosy.

Personally, I still think she's fitt. If that means I like 'trannys', then so be it.

I'm confident enough in my sexuality to deal with that.

I dont think its about confidence in your sexuality.

I think if a girl looks wierd enough that you wonder 'she must be a tranny' then its about personal choice?

Im sure Sophia's a nice girl under all that facade of a slutty wannabe image, but i guess by promoting that side of herself shes not doing herself any favours. And, im sorry, but she deserves all the criticism she gets, thats the price of the facade im afraid. Deal with it.

And Mola, you're right, us men DO look that way totally, fair play at least we're honest?!

"It's apparent that you don't deem girls who have slightly masculine features as worthy of having sex with you... "

Mola you just made me laugh!
Sorry sweetheart but i am actually a woman and not a lesbian! lol

Totally agree with Joey, this has nothing to do with confidence in sexuality it's a personal choice
yeah i called her a tranny but that is my opinion. That hardly makes me shallow.

Calling her a tranny doesn't make you shallow, but assuming that no one fancies her does.

Do you think the same of fat girls?

The fact that you're a girl explains your attitude. No doubt you're one of those wannabe asian models who visit the site in hope of a break..

A tad jealous perhaps of someone getting so much attention.... whether positive or negative.

What if shes not a wannabe model?

Just wondered...

Then she's a girl who doesn't want to be a model, who is jealous...

Afterall, if it didn't matter to her she wouldn't bother making a post.

whatever you think of her, she does have a nice voice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nA6vxPfCaZQ

i've met a few times and she knows exactly what shes doing, what ppl think of her and shes doing her think. i think there may be a few insecurity issues but hey who doesn't have those.
the fact that ppl have any opinion of her is enough.

and from personal experience i generaly find insults come from those sad little boys, hooked on porn with no goal in life. as for the woman who insult....its some form of jealousy, no matter how much they deny it